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This is basically question and need for an advice type of post.

So I’ve been trying dating hoping to get into a relationship for the past 1 year. And there’s no success, there has been a 2 or 3 times where I dated a guy and he just wasn’t trying after 1 month and eventually said he is not ready for a relationship (very common in today’s dating scene)

I also absolutely sure I’m fairly attractive and personable that during the times that a good date happened the guys are excited or want to see me sooner but I don’t know why eventually they flake off. I think maybe with one of my personality but I’m pretty truthful with how I act during a first date and after that.

Now I went on first dates again after a break up that wrecked me on December. Went to a date with 2 guys, one of which is a traveller. Both mentioned about having a relationship with me during and after the first date. Wasn’t sure why I’m single. Both was very sweet and gentleman but I am scared that the same thing happen again.

It took me a while and a lot of crying to get over that breakup. And I’m happy now genuinely.

What should I do to maybe hopefully avoid that same thing to happen? I don’t know , this post became an asking advice, ranting and question I think. Gracias everyone